36 yo straight dude in a monogamous relationship with a woman. The last few years I started to notice that men started becoming attractive to me. And recently I can’t stop fantasizing about what it would be like to be with another guy.

But my partner is amazing and I’d never be able to live with myself if I cheated on her. So at this point I’m just looking for someone to chat with and further explore to see if I’m even romantically attracted to dudes.

But that seems difficult. Every guy I’ve talked to on Grindr wants to see pics right away or they won’t even talk to you. I’ve got so many unique tattoos that if I ever shared pics with someone while with my girl, I’d constantly be looking over my shoulder.

I see many posts here wanting to be turned and treated like a girl but that ain’t me. I’m not even sure I’d want to bottom tbh. Just an average guy with pretty vanilla sexual interests.

Are there any like-minded guys out there willing to chat?

36 yo white guy, 6’2, 225 lbs, and 8” cut.