27m from Rhode Island here. Scrolling thru this subreddit gets me rock hard and stiff. I feel so conflicted at how easily aroused I get seeing another guy with cock out and all stiff and hard or him jacking it. Like I think it gets me aroused and hard faster and better than seeing a chick naked or jilling herself which don't get me wrong is really hot as well. Out of curiosity I asked around in other subs and forums about this and what I feel experienced. While some men answered no or found disgust in the idea I was surprised that more men answered in telling me it's very relatable and they too feel similar.

Many older men have told me it is common and big part of our growth as males to "mess and play" around with each other at some point to explore our sexuality. Others say it's a form of male bonding, others just say it's horny to be horny. What do u think? Is there any meaning to it for u? Society says us guys are horrible verbally expressing ourselves to each other and conveying our emotions. Is this possibly a way for us to express these things to each other?