For some reason most of the posts I wanted to crosspost here are NSFW and such posts aren't allowed here. If you're really curious I guess you can go to my profile here and check out my posts for yourself. But I'll try to sum it up here.

As the title states, I'm a single 47 year old guy in the Buffalo area open to explore with anyone regardless of gender. I'm interested in being sex positive and looking to explore sexually in general. This past summer I officially recognized myself as a bisexual. This is something I've been struggling with for a few decades. The desire for guys came in phases at first, with much guilt and shame, but I have grown to accept it's OK for me to like guys, and to enjoy doing things with them. I'm not quite sure how much I want to try, or what I'm getting into, but I know I demand my right to do anything I want with consensual guys.

My fantasies of guys usually have me being submissive to one extent or another, so I guess I'm looking for someone who is secure and confident but not inconsiderate or abusive. Probably makes sense for him to be around my age or a little older. Lately I've been into bears, which is what I wrote about in one of the posts that wouldn't crosspost here. But I've also had my fantasies with twinks where I'm the dom and I take my time feeling one up. If the trust level is there I'm very open to trying some BDSM, but nothing disgusting or too extreme. I'm not that eager to crossdress anymore, but it's something I won't necessarily turn down doing. I'm also open to being with more than one person at a time. I would love to experience a same sex threesome. I have a fantasy of one of my nicknames being Fingercuffs lol. I would also love to be gangbanged, though I don't know how feasible, or safe, this would be. Maybe I need to be regarded as a sexual object, and being regarded so by multiple guys would make up for lost time.

And although I'm not expecting any ladies to be interested, I'm not excluding them from consideration if any happen to express interest. I can still be a Fingercuffs through the miracle of the strapon lol. But seriously, trying to be a sex positive person with an open mind, I don't want to limit myself to something that in my early 20s I was horrified to discover I was into. I'm looking to grow (not just that way lol!) in my sexual understanding of women, which could involve just watching, as I would probably mostly do if I were the only guy in a threesome or moresome.

Don't worry if you're interested in me but you don't quite fit what I'm looking for. It's true I have my preferences like anyone else, but if you're in the right spirit it's more important than your penis or boob size lol.

I'm mostly in this for the experience, learning and growing, but I do want to relate to anyone I hook up with on a nonsexual level. It could mean I meet a guy out at a bar, we feel good chemistry between each other and decide to spend the night with each other, or it could mean I meet a guy multiple times and we get to know each other, share ideas and develop a comfort level with each other before doing anything which involves nudity. Comfort and trust are going to be big things for me. I'm not at all interested in dating a guy or anything like that, but I am open to friendship with benefits if it turns out like that. In fact it might be nice to have some.

I hope if you've read through all of this it wasn't too painful. I want to be thorough about whom and what I'm looking for. I do hope some folks express some interest. Even if it's just to chat here it would be fine. But I do hope some things happen in the flesh.