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The original post was posted on r/Teachers 15 days ago.
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My Last Day Obeying Orders = Yelled At 3x
Since Friday, I am no longer a school administrator. I technically have another week to work, but I took vacation during that time becauseā¦. well, screw them.
Now, I spent the last week packing up, giving aide and comfort to my (now former) staff, and causing problems for the new administrators who are assholes. Now, besides giving the entire staff a year free from additional PDs, I wasnāt planning on causing any more problems. Just quietly leave and drive off into the sunset. Shane style.
But no. Apparently I donāt deserve a quiet week. The new principal (demoted from Asst. Super.) and her new Teacher On Assignment (TOA) decided, for some reason, to be rude to me. There was only one response to thatā¦ I aimed to misbehave!
How were they rude to me you ask?
First off, they ordered me to hurry and clean out my office. Apparently, the TOA wanted to start redecorating my office. I was literally told āGet all your personal stuff out of here ASAP. She wants her office now!ā. I still had a week to work there and actual work to do.
Second, the new principal tried to steal my personal chair and my personal office supplies and decorations. That chair was a gift to me from a friend. I found her just wheeling it out of my office and into herās. My desk supplies and a banner from my wall were stack on its seat. I told her that it was my personal chair. Not the districts. She said āokā. The very next morning, I found it missing. She had moved it into her office after I left for the day.
Third, I was given a list of tasks to complete by Friday by the TOA (who is in no way, shape, or form my boss). These were not my job to do and are in fact the incoming admins duty to complete. Stuff the new admin are supposed to do. Things like: put together a new staff packets, schedule next years PDs, fill out and submit request forms, ect..
Finally, I was talked down to every single day by the new admin team. I was spoken to as though I were the hired help and they were the Royal Bitches. Seriously, I speak to a waitress that messes up my order with 20x the amount of respect that they showed me. They actually tried to get my attention by snapping their fingers at me. Like that would work.
*Note: The new principal also has made some pretty anti-LGTBQ comments. I don't like narrow-minded people.
So, I decided to to as I was told. I was a soldier, so I know how to follow orders.
- I removed EVERYTHING that was my personal property. That included my chairs, decorations, the stress relievers (punching bag, ect.), the fridge from the office, and the file cabinets in my office. Yes, I bought government surplus cabinets because I didnāt have any. All my files and all of my former principalās files were in there. I had even bought the manila folder I used in it.
- So, I took ever piece of paper out of my cabinets, removed them from my labeled folders, and stacked them on the floor into one large pile. There is no order to how they are stacked.
- I took my chair from the principals office while she was in a meeting with parents. I just walked in and rolled it out. She stopped talking to the parents to ask what I was doing, and I responded that I was taking my personal property out ASAP as I was ordered to do.
- I had an old medium sized fridge I had placed in the office work room for office staff to store their food in. But it is mine, so I took the fridge. I brought in right out the front door and loaded it into my truck. I even took the new admins food out of it and left them on the table. Its my fridge. I warned the rest of the office staff I was taking it, but forgot to tell admin. Darn.
- I copied all my digital files over to a flash drive and then deleted everything off my work Google drive. Any thing I personally created or designed.
- Copied all my emails too.
- I informed the staff that if they need time off next year and need it approved, to submit the forms to me this week. I got several and they are all now approved. I got this idea from someone who messaged me here on Reddit and suggested I do this. Thanks for the advise.
- I approved every supply list item the staff submitted and even drove to the district warehouse to pick up some items personally. I even approved funds for a second-hand kiln for the art teacher. She found a good one on Craiglist.
- I had repaired my desk with bolts and tool from home. I took the bolts back. The desk is now lopsided again. The closet door was broken when I got there. So I repaired it. I have now put it back as it was when I was hired.
- The two way mirror to the detention room was mine. I had gotten it from a friend at another school (different district). It allowed me to watch ISS and detention students from my office without them seeing me. It popped that right out and took it home. Now the TOA has a hole in the wall the detention kids can look through.
- I had put together all the lockdown buckets and fire drill bags myself with my own money. I took all of them back. This I felt bad about, but i will give them out to the staff at my new school.
- I put a rush order on all classroom and building repairs and have an approved order to have every classroom repainted.
- I assembled new staff packets and the new school year binders. Besides the basics of what is required, I have included throughout the binders in random places:
- Dilbert cartoons,
- Famous Harry Potter quotes,
- The lyrics to Nickelbackās āHow You Remind Meā, āI Kissed A Girlā by Katie Perry, āAll Starā by Smashmouth, and āWe Built This Cityā by Starship.
- A map of the area where I marked all the good places to eat lunch off campus,
- Funny Farside teacher comics,
- Cheesy āTeacher Jokesā,
- The union contact info.,
- Crosswords, sudoku, and word searches
- A list of educational lawyers.... just in case.
- I also included in the binder the admin Wifi password for them since that signal is stronger for some reason.
- I went ahead and wrote out the PD schedule for next year. Oddly, Every Wednesday is listed as āfree timeā or āwork in your classroomā. Iām sure they will change it, but I donāt know when they will find out what it says.
- I had a master list of donators and partners in the community. It was posted on a whiteboard in my office. I got over four dozen businesses and people in the community to help with various things or donate over the years. I spent a lot of my time building relationships with them and making deals. I took a photo of it and then I erased the list. And took the whiteboard since it was mine.
- Friday, I flew the LGBTQ flag instead of the state flag. I also placed LGBTQ flags in each classroom in case the staff want to display them.
Then I got yelled at...... three times. The first time was when I took back my chair. I was told it was unprofessional to just take it without asking. Especially with guests present. I responded with āYes, it was unprofessional to take MY chair without asking.ā. The second time was when the TOA found the refrigerator gone. She said that it was community property. I told her āNo, its my property and I was told to take all my property from the campus.ā. The third time was when I was in the parking lot leaving and they found the piles of papers. The principal flagged me down and told me to clean it up. I told her I was off the clock and that the district never reimbursed me for the cabinets so I had to take them with me.
I am expecting a call from HR today asking for my assistance setting everything back up since with all my stuff removed and erased, the admin team has to actually put in some hard work.
Iād come in. For my consultant rate. $75.00 an hour with a minimum contract for 12 hours.
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Update posted today - July 12, 2022
Update: I Don't Work Here Anymore.
So, as some of you know, I left the world of being an administrator a few weeks ago. I tried to leave behind some nice .... gifts when I left. I wasn't looking to cause problems my last few weeks, but the new admin team treated me in a way that was unacceptable. So I decided that Malcolm Reynolds had it right when he said "I aim to misbehave.".
Well, the Tuesday after I left, I received a call from HR. I ignored it. I then left for a road trip with my daughter where we went to San Francisco for a few days and went to two Giants games. Unfortunately, they lost both games. While we were on our trip, they called and emailed me at my personal email account (my work one was deleted by them). I ignored the calls and never opened the emails. My daughter and I then went to Disneyland for a few days of fun and then returned this past Friday. I then checked the voicemails and emails.
I was asked, begged, and then ordered to come to the HR for important meetings. "It is very important that we speak to you as soon as possible." is what they said repeatedly. So Yesterday I went in to the district office wearing cargo shorts, a shirt I got at Disneyland, and flip flops. I don't work there so I don't need to dress up.
When I arrived, I was originally treated like a visiting VIP. The HR manager and her assistant tried to butter me up like a Pillsbury biscuit. After a few minutes of them trying to make small talk and me then letting them know I had plans to go to lunch in 30 minutes, they got to the point. They wanted me to turn over a few things took with me that, though they belonged to me, they said were sorely needed at the school. They gave me a list from the new principal which included, but limited to:
My chair (Seriously!)
My refrigerator and appliances
My community contacts board (People/businesses that I build relationships and partnerships with)
My personally designed forms and worksheets
Two way mirror
My Lockdown Buckets and FireDrill Bags
They also wanted copies of every record I kept and notes I took on the staff and students. The notes I took on the staff were so I could personalize gifts for them and have conversations with them on their interests.
I said "No" to all those requests. I told the ladies that the furniture and appliances were mine that I brought in. I stated that the chair was a gift to me from a friend and that the new principal can afford to buy her own chair. I also stated that I left any official school/district documents there and any I took with me and/or deleted were of my own making and my intellectual property. I also stated that my contacts were developed over the years on my personal time and at personal cost to me. I also stated that everything I took, that I had submitted reimbursement, was never reimbursed. I kept my records and pay stubs. I never saw a red cent from those submissions.
They offered to pay me for some of the items and gave me a rough figure of what the district would pay me to return the fridge, the forms, buckets, bags, mirror, and contact board. I told them that I did not want to hand them over to the new admin team since they had treated me so poorly.
The asked me again and tried to reason that some of those things could be interpreted as school property. I told them that The were welcome to try and force me to return anything that was legally mine to them, but I would be willing to fight it in court. I also told them that those two new administrators made me uncomfortable and that their treatment of me could be considered making a hostile work environment. Especially when they tried to make me do their jobs for them. I then gave the HR team my lawyers info.
* Note: I dated a lawyer after my divorce for a few years and we are still good friend and she has offered herself as my "forever retained lawyer" that I can use her name and she'd help me if she could. I rarely use her name, but when I have needed her legal advice, she always comes through. I also help her with physical chores when she or her family needs help.
I then wished the lady a good school year in the term to come and left. I doubt I will ever hear from them again.
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