Well, after 22 years it has finally happened! I broke the dam and the water came flooding in.

I met someone recently who I have been seeing casually and before we had sex I had told him weeks prior that I struggle to get off by myself and with a partner. He was super understanding, didn’t pressure me at all, though I was nervous. On the day he said he wanted to see if I could squirt ( amongst other things) and I was hesitant given my struggles... however through patience, a combination of sex toys ( restraints, fingers, paddles etc) I FINALLY had the most insane orgasm of my life.

It was the most freeing, honest and loving sexual experience I have ever had. Definitely felt super comfortable.

The suction clitoral stimulator is now my BEST FRIEND. She gets the job done, doesn’t numb your clit and sends your heart racing.

I should also add that I’ve just started taking antidepressants which has made it harder for me to orgasm, but this device broke through that barrier too! I’m going to keep exploring to make sure it wasn’t a fluke, but I’m super happy!

Here’s the one he bought for me:

https://www.lovehoney.co.uk/p/womanizer-x-lovehoney-pro40-rechargeable-clitoral-stimulator/74431.html

There are cheaper ones out there that work just as great and a lot of women have said this device is amazing :)