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I (24F) have never been able to cum with a partner whether it’s through oral, penetration or stimulation (finger).
I can only cum by myself while watching porn. I have no qualms with giving up porn, but quickly discovered that I can’t even make myself cum without it as a visual aid.
For those who are familiar with this problem/have had similar struggles, how can I wean myself off and fix this? Are there advice, tips or tricks? Please help, I want to experience an orgasm with a partner so desperately. TYIA
***Editing to add that I became sexually active at a very young age and found porn soon after I started. I’m a very sexually stimulated individual — I’ve had many sexual partners and have tried many, many different things with all of them and none of them have been close to making me cum no matter how much I enjoyed it. I believe a lot of my problem lies in the visual aspect of watching porn. Really not sure how to fix this. Please help
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I don’t understand how you think this is misinformation. There are soooo many people who have porn addictions and therein after have sexual dysfunction. The reward system of the brain gets hardwired to need that stimulus. It gets trained to be aroused to that stimulus and needs it overtime to preform regularly. The novelty of that reward system wearing off with repetitive use is why porn consumption becomes more extreme overtime. It’s science. Dozens and dozens and hundreds of people openly admit this is a problem for them and has caused problems for them, and are seeking help because of it. You removing this comment, but not telling OP she’s wrong seems really strange. They’re both talking about the same thing. Porn induced sexual dysfunction. Why is this commenter wrong but not OP? Can you explain please so we may be illuminated by your choices?