Hey y’all, F22, and it’s REALLY hard to get a good orgasm out of me. I finally was able to have a good one a few weeks ago but it’s still a lot of work and it sucks. I know many women can’t cum from penetration only, so I’ve mostly been focusing on finding a way to cum from clitoral stimulation. But I noticed that when I was looking for resources or guides a lot of them showed a clitoris that was a lot tinier than mine, like maybe the size of a pea while mine was closer to like a little in between a dime and a nickel. To add to that, I kind of panicked (thanks OCD) and googled what a clit is supposed to look like and mine looks HUGE in comparison to most of the ones I saw. Like I did not see a single one that looked like mine.

I’m not sure but maybe this is affecting how well I can orgasm?? Like I would understand why it would make it more sensitive, but after rubbing or stimulating it for awhile I tend to go completely numb in the area. Other times it’ll get so sensitive I instinctively remove all stimulation. Is the trick to just keep going and push through the uncomfortable feeling (it doesn’t hurt) or what???