You are attached, whether married or a long term relationship and for the most part things are fine. For whatever reason the physical side o f your relationship has diminished from what it used to be. You find yourself craving some o f the attention you used to get from your significant other - the love, the passion, the craziness, the longing, the desire, the butterflies.

Perhaps like I've done before, you've confided in a friend and their only advice is for you to leave. But what they may not understand is leaving isn't really an option. Maybe there are financial reasons or even children involved and leaving just simply isn't an option.

So what do you do? Do you stay in the relationship because o f those reasons I mentioned above and more? Odds are yes, even though you'd be unhappy.

Or do you do the 'unthinkable' and find someone to fill that void you have? Then you want to be discrete as you don't want to destroy the relationship you're in. But what if you could find someone that was attached themselves, had no intention o f leaving his relationship for various reasons but was like you, longed to feel those butterflies and get back that lost part o f his life that we all miss.

Well, that someone is me. I have no intention o f leaving my relationship or in any way destroying someone else's relationship. Intimacy is the void in my relationship. I long for someone to be intimate with. I would love to find someone to have that 'special' relationship that is just between the two o f us where discretion and boundaries are important.

I don't smoke, am a social drinker and take good care o f myself. I enjoy a variety o f things in life and always open to learning and trying new things.

If I've piqued your curiosity, feel free to write. I look forward to hearing from you!