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Subreddit Rules
Post title must contain the following: [AGE] [R4R] [CITY OR LOCATION]
Any posts that are tagged improperly will be removed. The SF Bay area is large so location must be a city or section of the bay area (SF, North Bay, Mid-Pen, etc). You may not care where a potential hookup partner is located, but they may not want to hookup, or even plan, with somebody who is a long drive from them.
Tagging Legend: [M]ale - [F]emale - [T]rans - [A]ll/Anyone
Example: 32/30 [MF4MF] SAN MATEO - Meet and swap tomorrow night. Who’s interested?
No advertising OF ANY KIND!!
This subreddit is for adults who want to hook up only. ADVERTISING FOR ANYTHING ELSE IS SPAM AND WILL RESULT IN AN INSTANT BAN. Similarly, if you are advertising an OF, IG, Snap or anything else on your profile page, you will be banned.
No solicitation OF ANY KIND!!
No solicitation OF ANY KIND allowed here. Don't ask for it, don't request it, don't hint at it, don't imply it. Don't ask for 'donations', don't ask for sugar, don't prefer 'generous' people or mention P2P. None of that. These behaviors will result in INSTANT BAN! Commenting in any post that is clearly for the purpose of soliciting sex also earns an instant ban.
Low effort posts and copypasta is spam
Posts need to be longer than 1 sentence and those sentences need to include a physical description for yourself and a description of the kind of hookup you are looking for here. If you post the same copy on multiple days in this sub, or to multiple local hookup subs, this is copypasta. Copypasta posters are allowed to post only twice (2x) in any 7 day window. Yes, we can see your deleted posts. Temp ban after the first offense and a permanent ban for the second.
Low effort posts will be removed
Posts need to be longer than 1 sentence and those sentences need to include a real physical description for yourself and a description of the kind of hookup you are looking for here. Removal reasons with a link describing what is expected will be provided. If we have to remove your posts several times for this rule, you can expect a temp ban along with a final warning.
Post must include a complete physical description
Posts need to be longer than 1 sentence and those sentences need to include a physical description for yourself (and your partner) including race, height, weight and any additional feature of your choice. The other sentence should include a description of the kind of hookup you are looking for here. If we have to remove your posts several times for this rule, you can expect 1 warning followed by a ban.
Do not spam the subreddit
1 post per day maximum. This includes deleting and reposting due to error in copy or post title. We don't want to see the same posts all the time. Automod will dump repeat posts with potential to be banned if you are abusing.
Limits for number of posts per day/week
Users may post 1x per 24 hours for search ads that are not posted anywhere else. However, if you intend post the same copy more than once, or to multiple hookup subs, this is copypasta and these posts are only allowed twice (2x) in any 7 day window. Yes, we can see your deleted posts and no you may not post more than one copypasta posts 2x per week either. This will be a permanent ban for most people.
Do not share personal contact info
Do not share phone number, social media, KIK, messenger or any other contact information in the title, body or comments of any posts in this sub-Reddit. Automoderator bot will remove your post if you even mention your preferred app name in your post. Keep this info to your DM's or Reddit Chat only. Post or comment will be removed and you will be banned.
Verification
If your post is dubious or questionable, for instance, if you claim to be searching for somebody to hook up with your partner while you are traveling, you better be offering verified pictures in the post. If not, we will likely ban you without asking for verification.
Locals only
If you are not hosting, visiting or planning to visit one of the 9 greater SF Bay area counties, your posts do not belong here. Search for a hookup sub in your own area.
All posts are locked and marked spoiler
Simple. If you remove the spoiler tag, you will be banned. If you comment on somebody's old unlocked post, you will be banned.
Suspected ban evasion
We do in fact have the Reddit Ban Evasion Tool enabled.
Don't contact Mods' personal dms for sub related concerns or questions
This will result in a ban from the sub.
Do not contact mods through their personal profiles
Use mod mail only. You will be banned for contacting a mod through their personal profile (PM or chat).
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