Hello! I hope the beginning of Fall is going well for you, even if the Bay doesn’t seem to agree.

Are you interested in getting a pampered massage? Because I love to put my hands to work. Something like a full body massage, head to toe with lotion, and then a follow-up rub-down with warm oil, finished with being wrapped in a fluffy warm towel and maybe cuddling. You call the shots, you tell me what you need and where, and I will oblige without complaint. Where we go from there would be entirely up to you.

And no, this is not a thinly veiled attempt at getting sex. I’m posting this because I'm a guy who would enjoy some company that’s a little more intimate than just chatting over coffee. If you were interested in something even more intimate, I’ll admit I love using my fingers/mouth and would be happy to do so, but it would have to be discussed ahead of time. I wouldn’t want either of us to feel pressured on-the-spot for anything.

If that sounds appealing, feel free to message me for any other specifics, but I’ll give some additional info below!

About me: I'm a 36-year-old grad student living in Fremont. I'm 6’3 and fat but not huge, which I know isn’t everyone’s type, so I want to be upfront about it. I’m white, medium-length beard, blue eyes, etc, and can provide pictures. I'm very laid-back, calm, humorous, go-with-the-flow, just a big teddy bear really. I'm vaxxed, STI free with proof, I don’t smoke/drink but don’t mind if you do, I can host or travel, and am happy to discuss any other concerns. I have no preferences on age, weight, race, tattoos, disability, pregnancy, etc etc. All bodies are wonderful so long as they are legal and consenting. That being said, sorry fellas, but I’m not interested in meeting men or couples.

I have met a few people from reddit over the years, and it has always gone well, so I want to continue to make sure any meeting would be safe for us both. I want to ensure good communication, safety, and boundaries no matter what. That probably means meeting in public before anything else happens, as well as setting clear expectations upfront.

Slightly more personal addition: I am serious about not using this as an opportunity to push for sex. Unfortunately, the medication I’m currently on has caused weight gain and libido issues, which has really killed my sex drive, and meeting would truly just be to enjoy someone’s company. If the stars aligned and sex was something both of us were interested in, great, but I am not seeking that in making this post, and doubt it would be an option anyway unfortunately.

Aaaand this post is already getting long. If you want to know anything else just ask!