Anyone deeply entrenched in the world of kink knows there are more established places to meet people. Local venues and community meeting places where a connection is sought and found. However, the veterans of those groups are much like actors who perform a predictable role, and there reaches a point where their behavior is scripted and cliché.

So, here I am, looking for new opportunities elsewhere. And more importantly, looking for someone who is relatively new, and someone who is interested in experimenting but hasn’t, as of yet, for whatever reason. Someone who wants to learn and wants to find a less intense pathway into that world. And to be clear, it’s not always about sex or sexual deviance. But none of us would be here if that wasn’t part of the equation either.

Who am I? I’m a 41 yo white working professional, 6’3”, 230, fit, clean, workout 6x a week, well traveled, and iso of someone who could handle a conversation on Nietzsche just as well as they can handle 5-10 rounds of screaming their lungs out. I’m happy to share other details, too, if you’re so inclined to ask.

Who are you? Age and race are unimportant. Religion and politics, while we may have differences, that’s only a dealbreaker if you’re unable to conceptualize a world different from your own way of thinking. A healthy libido and an interest in fitness, however, absolutely help. But I don’t have a cookie cutter checklist of things you should look like or ways you should behave, other than someone who has an open mind and the curiosity to explore.

I’ve been told some of what I seek is “too broad” or “vague”, but that’s entirely the point: chemistry comes in all shapes and sizes, and recognizing that we find ourselves attracted to different people for different reasons is inherently part of the struggle of finding compatibility with others.

If you made it this far, I appreciate your patience and interest. And if anything resonates, kindly drop a line. Perhaps include your favorite CNC thought. I’ll be happy to do the same. Thanks!