Hey there!

Okay, this might be a long post so apologies in advance. I'm a 39 year old dom in Bangalore, India looking for a submissive woman/girl interested in a long-term relationship. To start things off, here's a few facts about myself:

• I'm 5'5" with a medium build, and prefer to spend 1 on 1 time with my woman. In groups of 3 or more, I tend to be quiet but happy with smaller groups unless I know everyone individually
• I'm a very protective person and take the responsibility of caring for someone very seriously
• I've been hurt in the past by a few who were unfaithful and I'm not interested in a repeat of that. Loyalty, and honesty are massive green flags
• My love language is largely being physical and gift giving
• I am told I'm hyper sexual, but I need to feel some comfort and know you before I get to that point
• I'm emotionally a lot to handle sometimes, and other times cold. Not something I'm proud of but when I'm there, I'm excessively all in. I don't mind changing that but it's got to be for someone who helps me want to want it

With regards to whom I'm looking for, here are a few things:

• Love to talk and communicate, love when I check in on you, and love being told what to do and wear.
• Eager to learn by being curious, and open to experimentation are important factors and don't mind it if I get strict sometimes, especially when it's for your own wellbeing
• Someone who's smart and independent in front of other people, but loves to be loved and cared for when we're together. Dependent but not co-dependent if you can relate.
• You're looking for something long term, live in the city, and open to eventually moving in together. So something IRL is key.
• A hopeless romantic and love being a little silly. You appreciate the little thoughtful things, over the grand gestures. Especially love a good cuddle after a shitty day.
• You're emotionally available and borderline needy, but willing to wait for me to show you how I feel everyday. Hopefully, you're willing to help me break out of my cycles and keep you emotionally fed consistently.

We'd obviously get along if our sexual interests match. If we get comfortable enough, I'd be open to extending some of them beyond the bedroom. Here are a few to help you decide:

• Dynamics include but are not limited to DDlg, Master/Slave
• Kinks include but again, are not limited to CNC, free use, TPE, roleplaying, sadism, food play, objectification, breeding, humiliation and watersports

Please spare me if you're looking for a sugar daddy. No judgment, but that's not my scene, sorry.

If any of this is something you're looking for, DM me with a selfie (maybe a fit check just to be different) and maybe something to kick start the conversation...

Thanks for reading.