So just a little while ago, on Hypnohookup, an OS solicited for help in submitting deeper to Bambi. Since it was OS asking and not Bambi, I felt comfortable because they seemed to want it. I used OS's Bambi triggers to bring her under at her request and started asking why OS couldn't submit completely. Bambi explained OS was scared and kept pulling the plug when she got too close.

I halfheartedly tried to pressure OS into listening more, but the more I thought about it the worse I felt. I don't know whose side to take in these conflicts, and I worry that even though I've been specifically invited, I might do damage to one or both personalities if I'm not careful.

Anyone here think tists should refuse to help Bambis or OS's? Have tips for assisting one side, but ethically? I'm very conflicted right now.