Hi,

I hope your day is going well as you read this message. As the title says, I'm searching for someone to share some kinky fun with. I'm newish to kink, but have been playing online for a couple of years now and have learned a lot about what it means to be a good Dom. I have some very limited irl experience. But if you're looking for someone with years of irl experience I should let you know up front this may not be the ad for you.

A little bit about vanilla me. I enjoy hiking, exercise, most nerdy things like sci-fi and gaming. I'm just as into a night out with friends as I am a night cuddling on the couch.

I'm 5'10", 165lbs, long brown hair, beard. Average build, but working on getting fit. I'm drug/sti free and you should be too if we're meeting up (420 is ok). Happy to verify.

Kinky me is an interesting blend of sweet and sadistic. I love to mix praise, pleasure, and pain all up together in a beautiful sexy mess. I want to softly stroke the side of your face with one hand as I put on your nipple clamps and tell you what a good pain slut you are. I want to slap your tits as I gently slide my fingers over your clit. I want you to cum for me, or maybe beg me to let you cum and get spanked instead. I want to tell you how pretty you look with your lips wrapped around my cock and drool dripping down your chest. I want to tell you what a good girl you are for me when you follow my commands. And most of all I want to make sure you're having at least as much fun as I am.

And when we're both exhausted and satisfied, I want to light some candles, cuddle you, stroke your hair, give you gentle kisses, and tell you how beautiful and amazing you are.

Aftercare, safe word, and check-ins are essential and any Dom who doesn't think so is not worthy of a minute of your time.

To be clear, I'm looking for a D/s dynamic during play sessions, but not any type of D/s dynamic outside of the bedroom. I'm open to just having casual fun, as well as a long term dynamic.

I'm not much of a brat-tamer, and tend to play and click much better with service-oriented subs. I'm not picky about body type or looks and am much more interested in how well we vibe than physical appearance, although there should be some attraction. I'm looking for ages around 27-45.

There's so much more I could add, but you're probably already bored out of your mind with this long post. If you want to know more about kinky or vanilla me, or if you want to tell me about yourself, or even just chat for a little while and see if we click, feel free to hit me up any time.

Thanks for reading this, have a wonderful day!