Hello all,

How's the world treating you today? For me it's been a nice and relaxing Saturday so far. Days like these (with this particular kind of hot "stay inside" weather, especially) make me really realize just how lacking I am in the area of physical, mental, and just general local female companionship/someone to come home to after busy and relaxing days alike, and to spend quiet mornings in bed with. So here I am looking for a girl/woman/female person, ideally local to the DC area, with whom I can make a real connection, a friend with benefits who is a real friend in addition to any fun benefits. Exactly what form that can take is pretty open-ended as far as I'm concerned, and I'm more than happy to see where any connection might take us, including an actual relationship or anything and everything that the future might hold. In short, I'm looking for someone with whom I can just as easily share a kinky night of wine-fueled fun, or give a back rub while watching Jeopardy or similar shows.

As for a little bit about me, I'm 29, from the DC area, and pretty much your standard suburban, college-educated young person (I have a B.S. in Biology and currently work in a Virology lab f if that's relevant to your interests. I'm "fighting COVID" in a manner of speaking). I'm also your typical redditor in terms of being generally introverted and nerdy. I'm not completely socially inept, as one does have to have several solid groups of friends to play as much D&D/other board games, Pen and Paper RPGs, and tabletop wargames as I do. In addition to my many creative and academic hobbies (I'm one of those who researches interesting things for fun) I'm also a fan of music, and something of a musician myself. I've been playing guitar for 15 years and go to quite a few local shows (when they're happening of course), especially of the hard rock/metal variety as those are always full of energy and fun. If you happen to sing or play an instrument that would fit well with a guitarist I'm sure we could especially have fun together with that.

As for the all-important physical information, I'm of pretty average proportions, being about 5'7" and 150 or so, thick, wavy brown hair and brown eyes, and a proclivity for having longer hair and a moderate amount of hair on my face (currently I'm definitely rocking the quarantine look, though I've recently cleaned it up a little). I've once or twice been likened to Jon Snow or Inigo Montoya, so make of that what you will.

As far as what I'm looking for in a partner physically, I'm attracted to a wide range of body types and physical features, and a girl's mind and personality are of equal importance to me as looks. I only ask that you be generally clean, interested in me, and either local, close, or otherwise able to have fun in person on a regular enough basis once we've established enough mutual comfort to do so (and can do so safely in adherence with local pandemic restrictions).

As for the "benefits" side of friends with benefits, I should probably mention that I'm decently kinky, having a good few years experience as a Dom and being generally fond of Dom/sub play. I'd describe my overall style in that regard as being generally caring, but also controlling, and that the core of any such dynamic for me is a deep mutual connection based on the level of trust and comfort required for a sub to completely surrender herself to me, to expose herself and make herself vulnerable, knowing that by me being in control, I'll always have her pleasure in mind as well as my own and will be there to support her and help her be the best sub and best person that she can be. I'd be more than happy to discuss individual kinks if we go down that road, but up front some of my main ones these days are role-playing (go figure), costumes/dress-up in a Dom/sub context, collars, harems, and fun vanilla things like generally exploring a girl's body and either teasing her to either a wonderful release or denying her until she's begging.

So yeah, hopefully that wasn't too long and boring to read, but if you happened to see this, are interested, and think we might be a good fit together, don't hesitate to send me a message at any time. If I'm not asleep, I should generally be around and responsive. I'll definitely be looking forward to your little orange envelope, and to the awesome person on the other side.

tl;Dr Nerdy science-y type seeks a special someone to really connect with on a deep and meaningful level, physically, personally, romantically, or hopefully eventually all three and more. Also, I can't easily see chats, so if you are interested, a PM would be awesome.