Editing this post 04/29 to say yes, still looking. But I want to emphasize i am looking for KINK sex. If a slap on the ass and some fuzzy handcuffs are the height of your kink, move on.

So let me tell you a little bit more about myself, then I’ll let you know what I am looking for.

Not a girl (they/them or he/him).

I’ve been on hormones for a number of years, but entirely pre-op. I am without question fat. So if you like white folks with big boobs, butts, and bellies, you are on the right track so far. I have long hair, and am a natural brunette with some fun colors thrown in.

Testosterone has given me the body and facial hair of a lightly hairy cis guy.

On to other love it or hate it factors about me: I am a squirter, in a big way, and I really like receiving oral.

I am also a kinky switch. Specific kinks can be discussed, but I am not looking for vanilla sex. RACK is my primary framework.

I am also not looking for one night stands. My minimum bar is set to fuck buddies or friends with benefits. Open to more serious options, but at least something ongoing if it is casual. A lot of the kinks I am interested require a higher level of trust and communication.

What I am not offering: -I don’t have a dick. Happy to put stuff in butts/other holes, but would usually rather hold it than wear a strapon -I switch, so I top sometimes, but I am not a physical pain based sadist (emotional/sexual sadism is a possibility, however) -I do also bottom, and I like receiving pain, but I am rarely submissive. When I am, it is only offered to someone who has impressed me a lot over a significant period of time.

What I am looking for:

-someone 25-45 who is kinky and interested in what I have to offer, and ideally meet some of the below bonus point categories

Bonus points:

-if you are a cis guy, I am usually attracted to brown guys with dark hair. Often Asian, Latino, Jewish, Mediterranean, or mixed guys get me going, but not hung up on particular origin, just aesthetic. -Cis women I don’t care about skin color, but for hair I love wild colors, brunettes, and redheads -Other trans/NB folks, let’s just be queer AF, shoot your shot -Long hair in any gender gets BIG bonus points -I have a soft spot for fellow nerds

Other notes: -I love all body types, so don’t hesitate because of that. -I have other partners, and will never be monogamous. Seeking others because distance and conflicting schedules make it difficult to see most of them often, and I have had more than enough nights by myself in the last year. -I am polyam, and looking for more than just right now. If you are still seeing this post at a later date, consider it still valid.