Howdy all!

Reaching out in hopes of finding a likeminded kinkster for bdsm shenanigans or general kinky play. The kink/bdsm part is a must for my search, but you don't have to be experienced. Ideal situation is a regular play partner.

About me: I'm 37. I have a lot of experience both as a sub and Dom. Outside of kink I'm a clean, professional, sane dude. Non smoker, no drugs, do enjoy a good bourbon, always play safe and with consent. I understand the importance of aftercare both as a Dom and am aware of my needs for it as a sub. I'm 5'9'' 210, average body type/dad bod, white, hairy chest, beard, short black hair

Dom me: More of a DD than anything. Very big on praise and pushing you to the limit within your limits. I want you to be proud of what you "took" and to feel like you have earned your pleasure. I'm sadistic, enjoy impact, bondage, toys, T&D, edging, watersports, playful humiliation, hidden public play, sensation play, and aftercare. I'm flexible with your kinks and open to most things.

Sub me: I seek to please. I'm a pleasure sub, obedient, and live for praise. I work hard to "earn" an orgasm and want to pleasure you more than once before feeling successful. I'm a masochist, I love impact, cbt, bondage, toys, watersports, T&D, edging, humiliation, hidden public play, sissification, pegging, anal, cum eating, sensation play, feet, spit, creativity, playfulness, aftercare. I need someone either visual or verbal to get into subspace, either someone who humiliates and teases with the right phrases or someone who uses physical touch and their goods to achieve the same effects.

Recent mood has been pretty switchy, so ideally you are a switch, but I'm open to a Dom(me) of any gender or a female, trans, or femme sub as well. Exiting a dynamic as a Dom, but would be open to a female sub if you are willing to fulfill a pegging kink outside of the D/s dynamic.

I have look preferences like everyone, but I'm more focused on mutual interests. In general I care much more about a connection than looks. Other preferences are HWP/average/smaller body types and not hairy. A good smile gets me more than someone's cup size, but I do appreciate a shapely booty.

If it turns into a FWB scenario - I enjoy board games, D&D, escape rooms, reading, tv binges, sports, video games, and bourbon