So while the title sounds like a oxymoron, it is as it says! I'm looking for someone to share exclusively with; each other high sex drives, bodies, and kinks, while also developing a personal connection and learning about each's other's hobbies and interests that hopefully may end up into a serious relationship.

About me: I'm a 23M, 5'10", Asian, with 4" inches, I'm height weight proportional (HWP), work out weekly, and disease & drug free (DDF) per last test in 2024. I do drink, and socially smoke (usually vape, and very rarely a cigar or pipe tobacco). I am a career employee, with a stable job, income and strong benefits, but still have free time to spare. I'm generally invested in hobbies, and am middle of the road in going out to events or staying at home. Have my own place to myself, and can travel around the DMV.

In terms of hobbies, Anime/Manga, video games (Mainly RTS, indie games, RPGs, with occasional FPSs) , conventions, cosplay, military culture, history, reading, DIY/Handywork, food touring, cooking and cleaning!

In terms of the "B" in FWB, I'm a switch partner, slight lean towards dom, but remain first service orientated. Your limits are your own, and mine my own ,always bringing forward anything first before hand, but will do whatever is agreed upon. I'll save my kinks for dms.

Who I'm looking for: A lady or gentleman over 21 (all are welcome above this age!) who is looking for a stable, partner for the long term, and is willing to commit to that person while we play. Someone interested in learning a new hobby, or showing someone the ropes of theirs. Someone willing to spend time weekly either driving around exploring NoVa and their hobbies events, or who will push or be pushed against the wall or bed exploring each's other bodies one inch and moan at a time. Be willing to take turns treating each other out, splitting the bill, or just relaxing together at one's apartment or house over a movie, or taking a nightly walk around old town. Most importantly, someone who is open to communicate when they are frustrated, or wanting something else, takes care of themselves physically & mentally or be willing to be helped in doing so, and someone to share all that life has to offer.

An Ideal Day:

Starting the day off with a simple good morning, as both of us live and support our lives. After 5, we meet up at a agreed spot.

Perhaps the night takes us out to an event, a restaurant, a new bakery or art store, something to let off steam, and share in our interests. Perhaps a park, or lively area to take in the sights, browse shop fronts, check out galleries, or try something new. Or perhaps it takes us in a secluded area, where we explore each other's bodies for as long as we desire before we continue on our evening destination.

Or perhaps we decide to spend the night in, cook together, or split the cleaning. Maybe we spend the night reading our favorite books or scrolling through memes, next to a fireplace. Maybe cuddling in bed feeling each other's warmth over a shared show or film. Or perhaps we spend it awake, across the apartment, satiating each other's suppressed desire.

If any of this interests you (and you felt like reading all of this), feel free to send me a message with the word "Roses" (got to fight off the bots too!). I do ask we chat a bit, and see if we click before we meet in person, in a public space the first time.

If it doesn't, I wish you all the best and hope you find what best suits you!