About me

Hi! My name is Stella. I'm a lesbian-ish trans woman living in Alexandria who loves baking, bouldering, and banter. I'm 5'7", 155 lbs, blue eyes and curly brown hair. I'm bubbly and silly, but have a serious competitive streak when it comes to games and debates.

I'm highly social but prefers small groups to large events. I love cooking and baking for guests and pride myself on my skills as a hostess. My ideal weekend social gathering is to have a half-dozen people over for board games in the early afternoon, turning into dinner and then late night conversation over drinks. When I'm on my own, I often spend my weekend lounging around in PJs and curled up with my two cats, a glass of wine, and a good book.

I am a serious foodie and can be a cocktail snob. I love trying new foods and will cook you anything you want to try. For several years my standard birthday present to friends was that I would spend a day cooking a single dish for them over and over figuring out how to make it perfect to their pallet. You can find me brunching in a floor-length dress one day and a blazer thrown over lingerie and leather pants the next. I love getting all dressed up with friends, whether it's for a quiet night in, a fancy restaurant, or being incredibly overdressed for Busboys and Poets.

I'm a switch with a lot more experience as a dominant than a submissive. If you DM me I'm happy to talk about kinks and such. I also love just talking about sex and intimacy, I've taught people how to do kink safely and helped some of my friends figure out what they like in bed. In general, I have a strong intellectual interest in sexual and romantic dynamics and what different people enjoy.

What I'm looking for

I'm looking to grow my circle of friends and playmates. I'm a physically affectionate and cuddly person who is looking for friends who also want to play around some time. I'm poly and dating one person right now. Not actively looking for a girlfriend but won't say no if that's the vibe.

If you're into group activities that even better. The superimposition of sexual and non-sexual content in group settings is something I find really taboo and hot. Things I've greatly enjoyed doing in the past include: - Having someone serve food or drink nude to my friends and I while we hang out (also very down to serve you and your friends!) - Lingerie board game nights - Throwing a (non-sex) party and having a designated "free use for oral" person as part of the activities - Having four or five half-nude people piled up for cuddles and massages. Sometimes it's stopped there, sometimes it's become a full-blown orgy.