The more I think about it, not only are bdsm and yoga similar practices, but the Dom/sub relationship is very similar to that of a yoga student/teacher. Verbal instructions, a clear power exchange and authority structure, intentional physicality. Even savasana serves the same purpose as aftercare-- to reaffirm one's safety and comfort despite a session's worth of challenge and discomfort. I would be more than happy to discuss a more exhaustive list of similarities, just ask! And while I would never abuse the teacher/student relationship in real life, it definitely makes for a spicy fantasy.
Imagine: You'd relax on your mat to get acclimated, you'd attune to the rhythm of your breath as you warm up your spine. You'd start moving, with a calm voice guiding you through poses, some easy and some difficult, all while getting in tune with your body. You'd receive praise and correction when necessary, but ample hands-on assistance either way, and you'd have strong arms to catch you if you were to lose your balance...
Of course, none of this happens in a vacuum. I am very serious about consent and limits, so we'd discuss those things beforehand (at length, too-- conversation is the best foreplay). Then we'd have a drink somewhere neutral to build trust, the cornerstone of any good relationship (bdsm and otherwise).
All that I ask is that you are in shape enough to get through a class (or however far we make it ;) even if you don't have that much experience with the practice of yoga itself. Also, you should be responsible. Every STD test I've ever taken has come back negative, and I got a vasectomy last year.
As far as my kinks go, I've been called a pleasure dom, a service top, and a brat tamer by former partners. I love giving affection when appropriate, I love spanking, toys, orgasm control/denial, facefucking, and most of all, giving oral. And not just in a "I'll go down on you real quick before penetration" kind of way. Some of my best sexual experiences have involved me giving oral and not even taking my dick out. Physically, I'm 5'10", athletic, lots of tattoos, a thick beard.
Let's trade pictures to make sure there's a mutual attraction, chat for a while, then maybe meet up for a drink. You'll see that I'm no serial killer, we'll flirt for a while, and then hopefully get warm together.
Let me know if you're interested and Namaste!
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