Going to preface this with a disclaimer as I know I have pictures of a beautiful woman on my profile-this ad is for me not her, as she is absolutely not looking for any men or m/f couples at this time. Any attempts by either to reach out and convince or ask us in any regard will be blocked. Similarly I am straight and have no interest in me. Either.

She is potentially open to a single woman (with or without me), and you’re welcome to reach out. But that’s not why I’m posting this.

(Sorry for leading with all this but you wouldn’t believe how often we get this stuff even when we’re clear about what we’re looking for)

Now that we have that out of the way… Well, it’s exactly what it says on the title. I have the fortune of dating a beautiful, kinky, open minded pansexual woman and god she lights up my day. But she also-to put it mildly-probably needs some rest now and then and I’m damned near insatiable when I’m around someone I’m attracted to and have chemistry with (bad news for her lol)

Which is what brings me here.

Basically what I’m looking for is an actual friend with benefits, with an emphasis on the friendship. I’m a slut for chemistry and it’s a major part of attraction for me.

I’m 34, 6’0, fit/hwp, fair skinned with dark hair and hazel eyes. I stay active and try to take care of myself.

Outside of the bedroom-I’m a massive nerd and love long talks about anything and everything from science to history to mythology (Greek mythology in particular is a dumpster fire and I love it). I’m a huge audiophile and will go on about music for hours, and I absolutely love to cook (I also make a mean cheesecake).

On the more risqué side of things I’m a massive flirt and tease who enjoys the buildup and anticipation. I have an oral fixation and a VERY high sex drive and I’m usually at my happiest when I’ve left my partner satisfied, exhausted and maybe a little sore.

I’m clean and DDF with recent test results I’m happy to share. I’m also very much kink friendly and happy to explore most fantasies with you. I’m fairly experienced in various aspects of the lifestyle and I put a lot of emphasis on informed consent and safety.

As for you, I don’t have a set “type” per say but ideally someone laid back and fun who doesn’t take themselves too seriously. I’d love to find someone adventurous as I’m quite open minded myself and love new experiences both in and out of the bedroom.

I know it’s a bit shallow to say but I would also ideally like someone who’s reasonably fit and takes good care of themselves. Chemistry is always paramount for me but I’d be lying if I said physical attraction isn’t a factor. On that end I’m happy to send pictures once we start talking.

If you’ve made it this far and I’ve piqued your interest, please, by all means reach out. If we hit it off I promise you’ll be in for a very, very long night.