I'm looking for my Daddy/softDom. A man who will take the time to get to know me first. A man who understands that "Daddy" is a name that is earned and not just demanded to begin with. A man who knows that being a Daddy requires holistic care for my whole self in order to let me feel safe and secure enough to give up control. Allowing Daddy to make my body crave him and the insatiable pleasure we give each other, and make me feel all squishy inside, because the things he says and does feeds my soul too.

I need to feel comfortable with anyone I have any relationship with, so I want a slow build. I expect lots of talking about things other than just sex. And for privacy and safety, I won't ever send nudes. Still, I recognize mutual attraction is important, so I'd want to exchange pics early on. That way you'll also be able to see me for who I am (Brown hair, 5’8”, curvy white woman who enjoys the occasional Zumba class).

I'm 39, and someone around my age (34 - 48) would be preferable. I also really align with men who are soft Doms or pleasure Doms, so if you consider yourself that but not a "Daddy," I'd definitely still be interested in hearing from you.

Please do NOT contact me if you are in a relationship, even if it is ENM. I am strictly monogamous and looking for a longterm relationship. I also am looking to start online, but eventually meet up, but this might take awhile. Please do NOT contact me if you are looking for an online-only thing, are out of the area, or looking for something casual.

I'm a progressive woman and if you are politically conservative, moderate, or not politically active, we will not get along.

Also, I am into having a Daddy Dom, but I have a hard limit for TPE, age play and incest. If that is how you interpret this kink, then we will not work out.

If you’ve made it this far and are still interested, send me a chat request here on Reddit and we can go from there!