Heya! Q A style

Q: Who are you?

A: Hi! My name's Rori! I'm 30, 5'7" and HWP. I'm a tomboy, I work in the music industry (full time benefits), and my sign is Pisces if you're someone who cares about that :P. In my free time I love cooking, I'm an avid gamer, and honestly spend way too much of my free time reading fanfiction. My primary love language is acts of service (both ways), and my primary neurodivergent love language is infodumping (both ways). I have a pic in my post history, and would hope to see one of you once you're confident that I'm a real person lol.

Q: What sort of person are you looking for

A: First and foremost, a woman over the age of 26 who enjoys cuddling and being eaten out. I'm fairly demi so you'd also need to be someone who's okay talking a fair bit before engaging in intimacy. I'm also very not poly, please only reach out to me if you're single.

It's not a requirement, but I would be hoping for this to turn into a relationship, so bonus points if you're seeking something serious too.

Q: TF4F?? You're trans?

A: Yep! I'm AMAB, 1 year on HRT, no surgeries yet. Half a year ago I'd have called myself androgynous at best, but I'm immensely proud of the progress I've made the past year. I finally see myself when I look in the mirror. More importantly I consistently get ma'am from strangers seeing my face, and I've got titties I'm genuinely happy with.

Q: Oh so you still have....

A: Unfortunately, but it's by far my biggest source of dysphoria. I am not at all okay with involving it in intimacy, and I ask that that be respected and to politely avoid the elephant in the room as much as you can :3 I know that's a big ask, but I promise I'm probably more uncomfortable about it than you are.

Q: Are you open to T4T?

A: I'm interested in people who have vulva and identify as a woman. If you have AMAB anatomy still I'm not interested, period. I'm horribly uncomfortable with it on me, i'll be horribly uncomfortable with it on you.

Q: Are you open to AFAB non-binary people?

A: Short answer is probably not, the longer answer is it's too much of a spectrum to say yes/no but I'm open to talking and seeing where it goes.

Q: Are you open to men?

A: NO. Emphatically no. Being gay and being trans are not 2 sides of the same coin.

Q: Are you looking for a one time thing or a relationship

A: Ideally I would like this to be something meaningful, but I acknowledge people can be friends and not lovers and vice versa.

Q: Ideal first meetup?

A: Go to a cafe together, get a cup of tea, and talk for hours.

Q: Top/Bottom/Switch

A: I would describe myself as passionately vanilla but I think most people would call me a Top leaning Switch lol. Big big fan of loving intimacy, my favorites are eye contact and hand holding during sex <3

I am not a kinky person myself, I'm generally open to most kinks that don't involve fluids, but draw a hard line at anything involving physical or mental pain on either side. That means no hitting, no choking, no degradation, etc.

As touched on above, I'm comfortable being shirtless but want my pants to stay on in the bedroom.

If you're someone who feels uncomfortable only receiving, I promise you just setting my head in your (clothed) lap and playing with my hair for 15 minutes will melt me. There's plenty of non sexual sensory pleasures I value haha.

Q: Okay I'm interested, can you drive/host?

A: I'm near the Silver Spring end of the red line, I live alone and would be happy to host, or alternatively I'm happy to drive within 20-30 minutes or so. I'd prefer not to make a trek into DC/VA/Baltimore if possible, but you're welcome to shoot your shot.

Q: DDF?

A: Yes, please also be!

Q: Anything else?

My preferred method of communication is discord.Please actually include a bit about you, what I can call you, what made you reach out to my post specifically, etc. That'll be my "Did you read this" test, it doesn't have to be long but I included a ton about me here, just saying "hey i'm interested" doesn't give me any basis to start a conversation.

Thank you, hope to hear from you soon!