Hi there!

I recently moved to the Waldorf area for a job and am searching for someone to connect with for something long term, but also low pressure and who understands I'll be overwhelmed with a new job. I'd like to find someone who has as high of a libido as I do, but also someone who wants to spend some quality time together like cuddling, gaming, or exploring the area. Ideally a regular play partner with real friendship on top.

I would like to find someone who wants to chat daily, who shares some interests as me (both in kink and out), and who understands and preferably shares that work can get really busy sometimes. Someone who wants to learn and embrace my passions and what makes me tick while I do the same for them. For that person you'll find I am a very good communicator, warm, affectionate, educated, way too blunt and and horny at times, usually a complete goofball, very understanding, and very eager to get to know you inside and out.

Yes, I have a really high libido, but I don't want to only talk about the dirty stuff. In a perfect world I would find a partner with some mutual interests in board games, video games, tv binges, bourbon, D&D, Marvel movies, football, camping, and cooking as me. I'd love to find someone who will hold me accountable and encourage me as I get back on my fitness journey too. Side note - I'm HWP, but I used to be an athlete (rugby) and now closer to a dad bod - I'm almost back to an average build, then working to rebuild muscle.

I am most attracted to creative types who have things they are passionate about. I do have a preference for average/smaller body types, but other than that I am much more attracted to ones personality and how they carry themselves. If you are comfortable in who you are and willing to laugh at yourself we will probably get along. Psychology is important to me, both in kink and in life in general.

To the kink part, I have experience both as a Dom and sub, and would describe myself as a sub leaning switch. I'm open to finding a Dom or switch of any gender or an all around general kinky person. I have no objection to new or experienced, I'd even go as far as to say I'm a natural and patient teacher to help guide someone new but interested. Whether new or experienced I am looking for someone able to communicate what they like/dislike and would want someone with specific fantasies and desires in kink (compared to just adding to their body count). As an example, if your answer to what are your kinks is "I'm down to try anything" then we are not a good fit. Fulfilling fantasies is a big turn on for me. I'd add that I am most weak for a dominant who is playful and creative, but also has a sadistic side.

Kink specific: My top three kinks would be - Pegging/Prostate stimulation, CBT (especially ballbusting), and Tease/Denial. I also really enjoy psychological domination, impact play, bondage, watersports, humiliation, cum eating, some sissification, worship, feet, sensory play, and plenty more. I like roleplaying, control, and creativity in play. I have a masochistic side once I'm in subspace. I respond very strongly to a verbal Dom/me, but equally enjoy a more gentle and encouraging Mommy/Daddy type as well as a degrading but playful Sadist type, and especially someone who has moments where they can be either.

If you think you fit into that somehow message me how and we will chat more. I'm happy to share photos after a thoughtful reply, but please tell me about yourself and your interests when you respond.