I'm a soft/daddy dom seeking a princess. I am looking to build consistent intimacy with someone, not a ONS. Doesn't have to be a full blow romantic relationship, but someone I can go on dates with outside the bedroom is a minimum.

Kink wise, I have a wide variety of interests, but I am primarily into the mental and psychological side of kink. I love doing nice things for someone, taking care of them, and doting on them, while also using them however I please in private. What really captivates me is when someone is so eager to please me, they don't need to be threatened with punishment to do something, even something they find unenjoyable. I especially enjoy watching someone do something I know they hate just to please me.

Some particular interests are: DD/princess, CNC, mental/emotional sadism, humiliation, anal, impact, praise. Happy to hear yours as well.

My ideal match is charming, witty, eager to please, a direct communicator, and enjoys dark humor. I'm polyamorous and live with a partner, but I place a high value on my own autonomy and seek partners who share similar values. I want someone I can care for, play with, and connect with but who doesn't need me every second of every day. Preference for those ages 23-40 and located in DC or nearby suburbs, but I'm willing to be somewhat flexible if the rest of the match is very good. Trans and femme NB folks are welcome.

If you like tall bearded guys with progressive values who are affable, sweet, nerdy as fuck, curious, and much kinkier than they seem at first glance, we may be a good match. In my free time, you can usually find me playing board games, baking, or at a kink munch. There are some semi-NSFW pics in my profile you can check out. Happy to to share face pics once we've chatted a bit.

For my part: I am poly and have been so for ~2 years now. I live with a partner who I date mostly separately from. No expectations of you dating or playing with them. I realistically have bandwidth to meet once every 1-2 weeks long term.