Looking for a sub for potential long term relationship. Ideally a nesting partner.

I'm fairly attractive about 6ft tall and closer to skinny. In decent shape and have very liberal views. Good job, my own place, a few hobbies and while introverted I'm good in social settings.

I've been told I'm a good communicator, caring, kinda and all that good stuff. I just believe we are all human and we all deserve kindness. Fairly nerdy, fairly angsty and somewhere closer to the queer end of the spectrum. Huge fan of therapy and learning new ways to make being a functional adult not excruciating.

Very far left as far as political ideology. Not religious in the slightest and think not being a shitty person is more personal choice and in now way shape or for determined by a constellation or the time of year your are born. With all that said I don't care what views you have as long as you aren't conservative. I get to decide what I believe in and everyone else should too. I do not smoke, edibles occasionally but I'm not a functional high person. Don't really have any strong opinions on any other non-synthetic drugs, as long as it's responsible and in moderation. Prescription drugs are cool, guess we can do the what do you take icebreaker.

I have children and I've chosen that there will be no more in my future. I have two cats and while I like dogs and they usually like me, don't desire having any of my own. My long term goals for myself are to live a happy comfortable life and make happy memories with someone.

I am currently ENM and not shackled to that. A little bit of a sadist, spanking, paddling and Shibari with some other forms of restraints are my fav. Decently kinky... def not extremely kinky and will never kink shame but very good at communicating where my boundaries are. I text a lot but will also send a voice note or call someone if I like them.

Just looking for someone who is sorta on the same page and willing to invest the same amount of time, energy and effort into a strong, loving relationship. I'm not picky about body types, physical attraction is important but it has to be accompanied by a good personality. Here for finding good connections and chemistry.

As far as kinks we can discuss that along the way. Just be open minded about most things and able to express your limits.

Always happy to share pics that aren't the one dick pic I've posted on Reddit. Let's talk about house plants, hobbies and what currently entertains us.