Please read this post carefully. It has important details about me that you should know before reaching out, in additions to the fun reason why it’s a good idea to reach out :-)

I’m a 41 yo father of 2 (middle school age). Biggest parts of my identity are: - I am a nerd. space based sci fi (star trek, star wars), superhero stuff… i love it. Dune 2 was the best movie of the past few years and it isn’t close. - I’m a nerd that also is into sports… weird I know. I coach my son’s flag football team in the fall and watch every game during the season. I’m hoping the Nats and the Caps can soon get back into better shape as well. - I am a romantic at heart. The grand gesture will melt me every time. I don’t watch pixar movies cuz they make me cry. Yup… full blown sap here. - I love to laugh. I make jokes too often, probably bad ones. I want to share laughter with those I love and those around me. I want others to be happy. - physical touch is a key love language of mine. My marriage is great, except physical touch has been lacking for some time, despite extended efforts to remedy - hence me being here.

I have been described as handsome, but if you are looking for a male specimen with huge junk then you’re going to want to move on. I’m more keg than 6 pack, but I’m still sexy as fuck.

I’m looking for a girlfriend. A woman who, like me, uses touch to express affection. A woman who can volley my banter and appreciates my inner nerd and perhaps even has some of her own nerdom to share. A woman who is not afraid of some sexy talk after getting to know each other a bit. A woman who isn’t afraid of catching feels, even if we’re committed to our partners. A woman who will look forward to chatting and meeting, but understands the needs and pressures of life and can be flexible with scheduling chats and rendezvous.

If it sounds like we could be a match, send me a chat? No sellers please.