Some days I want nothing more than to take care of a lovely lady, to make her feel special and cherished. And then there are other days I crave pinning her to the mattress and using her body however I please. Or finger her under the blankets while we snuggle up and watch her favorite movie.

But I only desire those things with someone who I am excited and intrigued by as a person in a vanilla context.

Which is what brings me here.

I'm looking for someone I can cherish and dote on like a princess in public, but use as my personal fucktoy in private. I am looking to build consistent intimacy with someone, not have a one-and-done hookup.

Kink wise, I have a wide variety of interests, but I am primarily into the mental and psychological side of kink. I do not enjoy using physical strength to "make" someone to do things nor do I particularly enjoy super rough sex. What really captivates me is when someone is so eager to please me, they don't need to be forced or threatened with punishment to do something, even something they find unenjoyable. I often enjoy when someone doesn't enjoy a particular act but does it for me anyway to prove their devotion.

Some particular interests are: DD/princess, CNC, mental/emotional sadism, humiliation, anal, impact, praise, but only really the first and last are must-haves.

My ideal match is charming, witty, eager to please, a direct communicator, and enjoys dark humor. I'm polyamorous and live with a partner, but I place a high value on my own autonomy and seek partners who share similar values. I want someone I can care for, play with, and connect with but who doesn't need me every second of every day. Preference for those ages 25-35 and located in DC or nearby suburbs, but I'm willing to be somewhat flexible if the rest of the match is very good. Trans and femme NB folks are welcome.

If you like tall bearded guys with progressive values who are affable, sweet, nerdy as fuck, curious, and much kinkier than they seem at first glance, we may be a good match. In my free time, you can usually find me playing board games, cooking, or at a kink munch. There are some semi-NSFW pics in my profile you can check out. Happy to to share SFW pics once we've chatted a bit.

For my part: I am poly and have been so for ~2 years now. I live with a partner who I date separately from. There are 0 expectations for you to date or play with them. I realistically have bandwidth to meet once every 1-2 weeks long term.

If this sounds interesting to you, I'd love to hear from you via chat or PM. Things I'd love to know:

• Age and location
• Relationship status
• Prior experience with kink and non-monogamy