stop me if you've heard this one before -

boy meets girl. girl thinks that she can fix boy. boy hopes that he can use girl. girl has some submissive qualities along with self destructive tendencies and selfish impulses too. maybe she's not the jealous type but she gets greedy with the things that she likes. perhaps girl finds such comfort in being pampered, praised, and pushed gently yet firmly that she lets her guard down when she doesn't mean to. boy conditions her to enjoy his degradation and uses hypnotic trance to fuel her fantasies - and plant new seeds in the soil of her subconscious. girl's really flattered that boy makes her custom spirals and files with her favorite pet names and triggers and doesn't mind at all that she can't remember what happens in between the flashes and the snaps.

girl finds herself wrapped around boy's finger, infatuated, overeager to please him. boy takes advantage of her obsession to exercise control over her sexuality, forces her to edge to demeaning and degrading porn. boy buys her slutty outfits and bluetooth toys and makes sure she's dressed up and vibed up and plugged for their dates. girl gets her nose pierced, then her nipples, and fantasizes about going even further. boy denies girl's orgasms, then her cunt altogether as she keeps giving boy more of herself with no clue where the slippery slope might lead her. girl learns that she's the only one boy keeps in chastity and that although she's done her best to ignore his other partners and any feelings of jealousy, she can't stop thinking enviously about them when they're allowed to fuck him and she's not. even if it is for her own good. girl can't escape the thought of boy's cock dripping with some other woman's juices, nor can she ignore how badly she's begun to crave that taste - even though she understands just what she'd have to do to wrap her lips around it.

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don't read too closely into the individual details - this isn't meant to be a blueprint, just a jumping off point. i'm open to all sorts of backgrounds, personalities, archetypes, and kinks. the most important factor in any dynamic is chemistry and that's what i aim to find and build upon. but you can't blame a guy for wanting to chase his dreams, either. stranger things have happened and i think there's something so poetic about sending out a signal into space, knowing it could never be received.

i'm a 32 y/o somewhat self sufficient man in Maryland, single and living alone (with my adorable cats). i am a bit out of touch when it comes to dating (clearly).

i'm very tall, i have blue eyes, a beard, and a tattoo with more on the way. i'm capable of having normal conversations and i put a modest amount of effort into my opinions, my hygiene, and my wardrobe. please, try not to drool over me so soon.

i'm seeking irl connection in order to build intimate, potentially romantic bonds. i am uninterested in traditional monogamy and particularly keen on exploring group dynamics with a submissive or switch woman who has some genuine interest in exploring cuckquean kink and the darker side of cnc hypno play.

as a partner i aim to be emotionally sensitive and attentive, to communicate openly, to show affection freely without diluting the value of hard earned praise. i think personal growth and development are important to everyone and that's probably why i love to incorporate those concepts in play as well. kink is not 24/7 to me and the slaps that sting hardest have genuine affection behind each one.

as a person it's quite possible that i have a screw or two loose but that's really up to you to decide. generally speaking, i try to take pride in being a weirdo and i put a lot more stock in having a personality than fitting some mold.

please no: - text or online only - outside of USA - younger than 22 - m/nb - new to kink - roleplay - casual - right wing