Are you hydrating (water)? Did you remember to eat (more than a snack)? We both know you often prioritize others, which leaves what you like, want, and need last. Most times unfulfilled. I'll wait for you to take a couple sips of water before I proceed. Omg, go fill your water bottle/cup up. Cue Jeopardy music. You're trying to learn how to say "no". You despise feeling like you've let someone down or disappointed them. It's ok. We're going to figure this out. Deep breath, in through your nose, out through your mouth. Again. Great job.

Self-love/care is my number one priority daily. When I'm my best me, all those attached to, and connected to me benefit. Mind, body, and energy must be taken care of. The world needs the best version of us. I have to move my body and keep my mind sharp. Calisthenics (body weight exercises) is my favorite way to move by body. I dance too. Avid reader. I draw, paint, and write short stories too. Frequent rock, paper, scissor player. Music sharer, and proud dad joke teller. I often pretend I'm on 'Chopped', and I think I could beat Bobby Flay. So, yes I like to cook.

The smell of the rain before it comes, and my first sip of oolong tea in the morning. Two of my favorite things. I've learned to be kind and gracious with me. The world can be a challenging place, BUT I know the universe wants us to win. We have to celebrate and cheer for us!

I understand the importance of open/honest communication, trust, and chemistry. PPD (Proud Plant Dad). I understand and appreciate consent. I have a significant amount of experience in bdsm/kink. D/s (bedroom only and 24/7). I want my sub to be happy and whole. Inside and out. The ability to share our thoughts/feelings is vital. No judgment, no fear. There's my sensual, nurturing, caring, kind, affectionate, forehead kisses, CUDDLES, aftercare, and protection nature. Then, there's my primal, savage, animalistic, powerful, strong, authoritative, firm, and disciplinarian nature. If at any point you laughed, smiled, and/or smirked, you have to message me. It's the rules, lol. I'd love to hear the last song you listened to. Talk to you soon.