A couple of years backs, my wife and I sat next to a guy at a bar. After a while, the sexual tension was palpable between him and her. He expertly steered the conversation to sexual banter, then truth or dare. Learning that being a good dancer and kisser gets her hot, he had her on the dance floor in no time and managed to tease her about how good of a kisser he was - breathing close to her mouth but not actually making contact. When they returned to the bar, he suggested we got back to his place for a drink and she was in. That led to several years of hot sex between them, while I watched. It was erotic for us both, but he moved from the area and life got busy.

Before Christmas while watching a bowl game at a bar, a guy sitting next to us started flirting and hitting on my wife. He was exactly her type and her body language told me she wanted him. But, he blew the end game. He didn't understand that married women want to be seduced, not just "hey wanna have sex". She was bummed when we got home - and so was I. Not many guys have the confidence to approach and seduce a married woman at a bar - even though the whole hotwife phenomenon is more mainstream these days.

I'm looking to find the right guy who wants to do a random meet for drinks to see if the chemistry’s right for fun with my vixen wife. She's not into the whole "lifestyle" scene, she only wants to meet guys "organically", the chase is part of the turn-on. She wants to find another guy like the first one. A guy with the confidence and skill to subtlety build the sexual chemistry through conversation but making his intentions known through his body language and eye contact. A guy that knows what he wants, and, respectfully, isn't afraid to go for it.

To be her type, you’d need to be very fit, clean cut, and no facial hair. You’d have to be experienced and confident enough to seduce her through a great sense of humor, quick wit, and flirtatious banter during conversation at the bar. She’s not at all into domination, but enjoys a guy with the confidence to take charge, without being pushy. She’s not into any kink or rough play. She likes fun, sensual, passionate sex. She is captivated by a guy who can seduce a woman’s mind through conversation and sexual banter before becoming physical - teasing makes her hot. When the time is right, being a great kisser will buckle her knees.

This isn’t a “cuck” thing, more stag/vixen. Neither of us are bi - she’s into straight men only and I just watch. Only guys who are respectful, patient, DDF and nonsmokers would have a shot. If you have any serious interest in the above, and would like to give this a shot, we’re headed out for drinks Saturday night in Dulles area. Respond with pics and a message about yourself and experience. https://imgur.com/a/w6AYmSC