Hi there. This might be a long winded text so bear with me. Hopefully it reaches the right person (s?). I've realized that I have been a part of relationships in the past that have left certain areas in my kink interests unfulfilled and I figured I would throw a few interests out there to see if I can find someone who shares the same.

About me: 5 ft 6 Asian. Health care worker. Leads a busy life and discression is something I would start off with right off the bat. Please be DDF as I am and I'd be happy to share results to prove it. No good time is worth a doctor's visit. Trust me .

Interests: hiking. Soccer and tennis. The occasional road trip . Partial to the beach and would prefer snowy hil tops and prefer ski/snowboard to surfing. Don't know well enough to do either . Enjoy some alternative indie pop for music.

What I'm looking for. So this is where it gets interesting. If someone's managed to read till now then this is where I suspect I'll loose alot of people since it gets NSFW so reader warning. I'm planning to list my kinks in descending order of interest that I want to share and explore with another person. This can be an exclusive thing with said person or the person is free to explore their own options but the priority is we work towards seeing if we can thoroughly enjoy the following kinks.

1, anything oral. This may be vanilla but unfortunately I haven't had the opportunity to explore giving a lot of oral to prior partners. And when I mean oral, I mean total submission and to be covered in juices. Since I'm not super experienced I would like some guidance on this when providing but would definitely be very enthusiastic since just the thought of being sat on excites me. This progresses into cum play or squirting. And if it matches your interest then golden showers are not out of the equation either.

2 cum play. Have a pretty strong oral fixation which spills into ( excuse the pun) literal cum play or swap using our mouths. I'm also pretty open to ass licking or trimming if the other party is interested.

3 . Light anal play. A finger here or there or a tongue here or there. Not too strongly into this but have had some light fun in the past that id like to explore more. Both receiving and providing

1. Group play. This may be limited to couples as there may be less of a trust concern involved but if we're able to experiment with an additional person to try and work on making one person cum/pleasured. Something like two guys giving oral to one girl is something I've been thinking about or maybe one guy massages while the other works down there.

2. Spit play. Kind of like above, bit of an oral fixation but haven't had a the courage to ask someone to repeatedly just spit in my mouth . Figured reddit has that anonymity to throw this out there.

Limits. Scat blood, pain , too much bondage. CNC or free use would require a lot of trust buildup so probably wouldn't entertain this until much later into our "relationship "

Also due to my work requirements and overall concerns about discretion, there's a very good chance I may not fully pursue any of the above since I would like to feel comfortable and trusting of the other person who reads this. So would likely start with a lot of chats first/ then think about meetups and then maybe we start discussing our kinks to see if we wanna go further. Not something that's a one time weekend thing.

Thanks