Heya! I'm an AMAB woman (she/her please!) looking for a partner to explore with. I'm still somewhat early in the transition, I've been on HRT for 3.5 months so I've got a few curves and a bit of a chest, but I still sound male and feel androgynous at best even if I'm looking in the mirror and seeing her more and more often lately. Basically this ad is probably looking for someone bi/pan as opposed to lesbian, I completely respect not feeling comfortable with my body being male cause like, I also am not comfortable with my body being male!

If you're interested so far, I'm 5'7", white, HWP, decently fit with shoulder length dark hair. More than a bit of a Tomboy, I work with my hands, don't really like makeup, prefer gymshorts to skirts, etc, but I still value some of the girlie things and am actively looking to learn and explore. In my free time I enjoy cooking, practicing music, and occasionally dabbling in art or videogames.

I have plenty of sexual experience but it's all from the role of the male, usually taking the lead and expected to have the goal of penetration. To be honest, I've been really nervous to post an ad like this cause I really feel like I'll have no clue where my boundaries actually are till I'm in the moment, but I feel like exploration is something I need to do for my personal growth.

I'm ideally looking for someone who's interested in being friends and potential FWB, as opposed to FWB and potentially also friends. Doesn't mean we're required to take a long time getting comfortable being intimate, just that I want some sorta personal connection outside the bedroom so I feel safe saying "No" arbitrarily. I've kinda had it with impersonal meetups so if you make no effort to talk about yourself or get to know me and just ask to get drinks, you'll be blocked.

In addition to that, I'm hoping to find someone who's open to and excited to help me explore how sex changes for me as I transition. I'd ask patience with the fact that I may want to keep my clothes on and just focus on you sometimes, and acceptance that penetration might not happen ever (and definitely doesn't have to if you don't want to). Only other major thing is please be into having your pussy eaten :3 Giving oral is my favorite favorite thing in the bedroom, I'd want to have it as part of just about every meetup. I hope you'd also be okay with lots of cuddling/making out!

Speaking of cuddling, I'd ask patience with the fact that I DO unfortunately still have a penis, and it still gets hard/big when something is arousing (although not nearly as often and easy as it used to). I may need to adjust it because it's uncomfortable. You may feel it while we're cuddling, and you're totally fine to just say you can feel it and ask me to adjust our position (and sometimes i'll be bothered by it and ask to adjust too!). It's part of my biology for now, and It'd mean a lot if you could just act like it's no big deal when awkwardness comes from that. My biggest source of dysphoria comes from bottom dysphoria, so trust me anything that reminds me it exists is probably more upsetting for me than you.

Only other requirements are please be within 5 years or so of my age, and DDF. I've been tested within the year and ask that you should be too.

I live 10 minutes off the beltway (no roommates, but I sometimes have the family cat) and am happy to host, but I'm also generally happy to drive within 45 minutes or so for something fun like this. I'm open to talking for a while first or just diving right into it after verifying we're actual real people!

I am only interested in people who have a vulva, with a strong preference for those who identify as a woman. If you are a cis-man (gay or straight) this is very much not the post for you.

If you read this whole thing please let me know your favorite waterfall, or make up something plausible. Discord's my preferred place to chat, I'm happy to stay on reddit or jump straight there!

Hope to hear from you soon!