Could this be yet another BDSM personal? Well, yes. Until the internet invents a good kinky dating app, Reddit is what we’ve got. Deal with it.

I am a fun, creative, and experienced sexual Dom looking to chat up and go on dates with an interesting sexually submissive lady, ideally one who is the opposite of submissive in everyday life. Are you one of those boss bitches who secretly needs a release from being in charge all the time? I feel you, and I think that kind of codeswitching dynamic is so hot to explore.

Where I might stand out from other guys here. I’m not into BDSM because I’m trying to prove my worth or work out issues. Honestly I’m pretty laid back. After years, I know exactly what I want out of the experience and why, and I know how to set the right environment.

While I enjoy some physical play, such as an OTK spanking, what really turns me on is mental dominance. It’s just so much hotter to take control this way.

You might have some questions about what I mean by mental dominance, so let me give you an idea of what it would be like to play together once we have established trust and limits. Some things you can expect from me:

1. Erotic Debasing: Subtle and not so subtle things that take you down a peg and make you feel very small, sexy, and vulnerable in front of power, ready to comply

2. Pet Ownership: Structures and controls themed on ownership that make you feel protected, safe, and valued

3. Mentor / Soft Dom: Regular, positive guidance that teaches you new things and pushes you to meet your goals (sexual or otherwise)

So who am I and why should you be interested? I’m the Dom you can bring home to mom (okay maybe that’s a gross way to put it). I am attractive, well-educated, successful, and have put in the work on my mental health. Money isn’t a problem. Stats: 47yo, 5’11, broad shoulders, pretty darn handsome. ENTP and ADHD. Never married, no kids, happily living the single Gen X life in DC (but open to something more)

Message me for more info and some pictures. This is super low pressure, and I love to chat with new people! Feel free to share whatever about yourself and your interests. I’m extremely non judgmental, and it would take a lot to shock me LOL.

I only have two requirements: 1. Please be upfront about your age and appearance 2. Let me know in advance if you intend to scam me or are a catfish. TIA!