Hello! I’m an attractive, 46 year-old typical Type-A DC Person with an open mind, a successful career, too much education, and a nice condo in NW. I don’t have kids and have never been married (but have gotten close a few times). Mental health, empathy, respect, and trust are really important to me. This is obviously a sex ad, but I would be totally open to an LTR if we click.

I’ve been into kink for 25 years and am quite experienced. My preferred style is 80% mental and 20% physical. I get off on taking charge, behavior play, punishment/reward and general mindfuckery.

Here’s a sense of what I’m like as a Dom: - Giving a simple order, such as saying “yes sir / no sir” and spanking you whenever you forget, until you learn your lesson - Texting you and telling you that you have ten minutes to cum, no matter where you are. No other orgasms are allowed, and if you miss the window, you have to wait until the next. - Compulsory pussy inspections. Sluts should be ready for sex whenever, or I might just do it to remind you of your status

The sort of kinks I’m interested in involve a lot of trust and are not really compatible with a one night stand. I’m looking for an ongoing trainer/trainee relationship, romantic or otherwise, in which we can go progressively deeper and more intimate as we learn more about each other. I’m also looking for someone cool who would want to hang out beyond the bedroom and do things.

I do have some basic requirements: - You are a single woman - You were born in the 20th century - You are well educated, employed, and financially secure - You feel attractive most of the time - You would be into hanging out and doing vanilla stuff when you aren’t tied up 😈

I would like if you are open and available for a LTR, but this is not a requirement.

Now comes the hard part: You need to put down the vibrator, build up some courage, and actually send me a note. It’s not that bad. Just include a description, some basic biographic info, and which of the four ideas above seemed like the most fun. The one picture in my profile is a picture of me. I have a thick athletic build, light brown hair, with a little gray at the temples.

The analytics tell me that thousands will read this, but only a handful will reply. Be one of them!