So, I had a first date tonight and I’ve been reading stuff from this subreddit for the last few months.. probably longer? And I’ve always had an interest in like.. light, but sometimes extreme cbt (i.e. slapping and acrylic crusher), but not typically traditional ballbusting (past slapping).

Well, tonight proved to be my chance. We had a nice time.. movie, dinner, and a long walk on the beach. Eventually, took her back to her car, and we had been talking about everything (including sex and kinks, and yes, including mentioning cbt), so I had been thinking about asking her basically the entire time.

I thought I had lost my chance as I lost courage, but then the few lights near her car went out, I felt much more comfortable. So I asked her it she wanted to try kneeing me, to which she excitedly said yes. It took a few knees, and also a dick adjustment, but she kneed me good at least 6 times. We were kissing the whole time, and I asked her to go lightly at first, as I didn’t know what to expect from her, and she did. After getting the first one, which was barely anything, I told her she could go harder and she slowly ramped up with each one, and she really got into it. I thought she\we was\were done as we kissed, but then she gave me the last one as a surprise and I almost fell on her. She asked if I was ok, and I told her I was, just that I wasn’t expecting it. “That was the point!” She said while maniacally giggling, but seriously.. fuck.. it was so hot, and she said she definitely wants to do it more. Needless to say, very excited for date 2!!

Comments, questions and concerns are welcome!!