I’m 25 M, I do a lot of sex chat and fantasies, done some ERP and when it’s good it’s great. However I’m getting super tired of being a dom, I’m a switch and I do really like domming when the submissive is interactive and responsive, but having to do it all the time can get a bit tiring as it feels like it’s expected a lot of the time. But in particular I have been noticing cis fem subs can be super low effort (no shade at cis women just for some reason the trans women and femboys I have talked too seem to be more interactive, although obviously not all the time). Like I spend a lot of time trying to be interactive as a dom and keep communication open, but it feels like I’m doing most of the work when all I get in response is stuff like. “Mmmm fuck” “Yes daddy” “Mmmm yes” “I love it” And then literally nothing else, nothing descriptive or interactive at all. Was just wondering if anyone felt like this, also be interested if male subs are similarly low effort a lot of the time. Also I just found this sub and am so happy to have found a place where I can legit relate to some of the rage and finally have a place to vent. It’s my first time posting so if I have done anything wrong please let me know, thanks for reading x