Okay so me and my ex broke up when I was about 7 or 8 weeks along, I am now 14 weeks though(yay for being in the 2nd trimester finally!!!) and then after we broke up I found out he had been dating another girl for the last couple weeks before we broke up. Now its been well over a month, almost 2 actually, since then and today I went to hang out with a friend as well as meet my ex's girlfriend without the ex involved because I don't care to be around him anymore after everything he has done. While there I learned that his new girlfriend, who has a 10 month old little girl of her own already, thinks she is pregnant again. So clearly I am way passed being pissed about it. Both were completely stupid and his girlfriend is only 18 and he is almost 20! I am already pregnant and she already has a kid and yet he didn't think maybe he should use a freaking condom or something! Ugh! And she isn't any smarter then him clearly, she already has a baby from another relationship, went through an abusive relationship just before dating my ex, and had complications delivering her daughter which made her think she couldn't get pregnant again and is making her worry about miscarrying because the doctors said she couldn't have anymore kids! I know the new girlfriend is living with him because she has pretty much no where else to go and her mom is a horrible drug addict, and because my ex is great at sweet talking and telling everyone what they want to hear. And now my best friend and my sister are both saying maybe one or both of them planned it. The girl could have planned it to keep her living situation how it is and keep my ex because she thinks he wants to get back with me, which I am not sure on because she seems very confident in her situation though that may just be because the baby but I don't know anyone who would get pregnant knowing they will most likely lose the baby so I am doubting that that is it. And my ex keeps asking me if I will let him around the baby or keep him from her and I keep telling him I am not going to keep her away from him, but clearly he doesn't believe me if he has to keep asking. So maybe he thinks I won't let him near this baby so he made a new one. Either way I know he doesn't care to use protection so I can't see how he doesn't have more kids already, but this whole thing is ridiculous, and if he got this girl pregnant too then he really is screwing things up for everyone involved including me because if he wants to be this irresponsible I don't think I want him in my kid's life a lot because he really needs to grow up some more clearly.