I have had a writing friend that I talked with almost daily for 13ish years. She recently discovered she has BPD and has become obsessed with using her trauma as a reason for not writing, not talking, monopolizing a conversation, and insulting me by saying I can’t handle her trauma.

Well today was another one of those days and she blocked me because I was taking too long to respond.

When I unfriended her, she went off on me about how hurtful it was. I couldn’t handle all the BPD positivity she was posting while exhausting me.

Now she blocks me claiming she’d never be manipulative or hurtful towards another person.

Welp, I’m pretty hurt.

I don’t know what’s next. I said we were codependent and that ‘triggered’ her. (I hate that word!) But I was just being honest. She didn’t even ask why I felt the way I did, of course. Everything she asks is about her. I need this group. I never thought I’d be ‘that person’ but here we are.