At the end of march, my wife and I were going through a trial separation in a hopes to re-kindle the marriage through therapy and slowing stuff down and having date nights. I move in with my father (pwBPD) and spoke clearly and concisely to him about a timeframe looking at until the end of august. He assured me he was understanding and said he knew this process may take a year or so and he was there for me. My wife an I three weeks ago that "us" is not gonna work. and we had as amicable a split as possible.

Of course like a good pwBPD he is, hes now saying he is going to evict me. I should have remembered from my early 20s the true twofaced unsupportive dick he can be. This morning he began to tell me all the reasons why he believes my marriage failed, i told him he needs to keep his opinions about my marriage to himself. So like a good supportive parent he says if he cant tell me why he thinks my marriage ended hes kicking me out. Me, knowing his tendencies to be a rug puller of support, I had him sign an agreement on paper to have me there until the end of August - though i wont put it past him to to change the locks when I leave the house.

I have moved all my stuff into the house and have a large dog, so just up and moving is not that easy in a week or even two. Of course my job situation has been difficult but next week I am supposed to be moving into a raise of 1K extra per month. Its just so frustrating dealing with this shit economy, going through a divorce, and then getting the rug pulled out from me at my parents house. I know the solutions - stop reacting to him , get a new place to live as quickly as I can. And at every turn I want to show him how unfair and cruel he is being in my time of need. The man abuses his power over others, the moment he believes he has some financial hold over someone , he abuses it.

Funny hes been in AA for 15 years and never learned to speak to any people in his life and systematically runs everyone out of his life. Reminding myself daily to breath, dont try and change the brick wall (pwBPD) and do what I can for myself. /end rant....