If I could go back in time I wouldn't even let my family know that I played in bands.

It started when she came to my show and hooked up with my bass player.

A long story short, while I have been living overseas playing music, she has infiltrated my band, my core friend group, and my warehouse friends and she has done it all by sleeping with my guy friends.

I come back now, after 12 year of living overseas.

She has invaded every aspect of my social world while I have been gone.

She has slept with guys that she knows I have been with.

I literally had to send her an email telling her to stay away from my ex boyfriend. I found out he stayed on her couch.

I have been walking on eggshells around her for 15 years while she villanizes me and plays the victim. It has been absolutely horrific. She is on BETTER medication but still I never know what mood she will be in.

I was going to try to have a relationship with her with very strict boundaries however, she just started dating a guy, right before I got back from overseas. Someone from my music friend groups.

And he is so incredibly my type. I'll never know if we would have worked, and it is going to be in my face for god knows how long. She single white femailed my life. I can't handle this. If she hadn't so thoroughly invaded my friend group, she wouldn't have met him.

I can't handle being around them. I am so traumatised from the years of eggshell walking, and so angry at all the social situation and friendships she has trashed that I can't stand to be in the same room as her. I don't even want to go to family events now. And this new boyfriend situation is just heartbreaking. She has slept with literally all the guys she has met through me.

She has been a nightmare that I cannot wake up from. She has invaded my band, my core friend group, my warehouse friends, and now thanks to this guy she is going to be in the metal scene. And now my family is ruined cos I don't want to be near her.

She has ruined my life.