So far it sounds like my pwbpd is mostly just here to litigate who hurt who. Day 1 session was spent apprising the therapist of the situation. I swear it was like my wife was trying to peck a fight with me. Cutting me off, angrily trying to one-up me, minimizing the affair, invalidating. But putting on such a show for the therapist. Smiling at some things. Tearing up at others. Feels like theatrics. Meanwhile she revealed that she had not cut off communication with her affair partner. Again minimizing it, saying that it’s just casual talk. The therapist clearly isn’t buying her shit. There’s no point to this post really. Just sort of using it as a journal. Sad really. Days like today show the narcissistic side of this disease. And of course right after the therapy session, she wanted to cuddle. I guess that’s borderline.