Another one to wrap my head around. I’ve been seeing a therapist who says that in general I need to establish stronger boundaries. (Never spoke about PD’s with the therapist because I was busy unpacking other shit. Sessions ended for logistical reasons)

When my pwuBPD asked about my final session, I shared that the therapist’s advice for me was to start building more firm boundaries. The moment I said it, my wife let out an emphatic “YES!”

It’s possible she genuinely wants this for me. But after diving into this sub I can’t help but feel there’s something else under the surface. Is she hoping for boundaries as a catalyst for drama and fights? Something else? Or does my wife actually want me to be a better and stronger and more independent person?