This may be a stretch for some cases. But I believe my expwBPD possessed a comorbidity with NPDwhen she felt slighted in such a way.

Has anyone ever noticed a physical change over time with their pwBPD?

I'm not talking about aging or weight gain, or obvious changes in hair dye or surgery. I'm referring to the person you met in the beginning doesn't even look like the person you were with towards the end (assuming you're on your way out.

Short story: I'll preface this by saying that I have been no contact for about 2.5months now. Any outings she and I would go on. Such as the arcade or bowling or anywhere there was a photo booth. She loved taking photos. I noticed she has keepsakes from literally everyone she knew or victimized...strange I know. Either way, I reached up into my drop for sunglasses in my car the other day and some of our photo trips fell out. I picked them up and I noticed that the later photos vs the earliest did not resemble the person I fell in love with. Photo 1 was a happy , loving, affectionate girl. She even leaned into me and cradled my chin in one photo slot as if she was smitten. Fast forward 2 years in the later photos. She had shark eyes as if she had been reincarnated as something unnatural. Her skin color had faded. There was no expression of emotion whatsoever as if there was nothing there. Almost as if I were the one draining her life force. I presume this is a manifestation of engulfment, this is where i reached the peak of the heartwrenching discard of no return. I was completely split black. I realize this may come off as stigmatization or demonizing and that is not my intentions. I'm simply analyzing my specific experience as I believe she was a very severe case. I would love to post the photos as representation, but I've noticed there being a pattern of some anonymity here and would like to keep it that way.

Has anyone else hypervigilant enough to recognize this difference experienced this?