I asked my friend w BPD “hey so do you wanna do something for my birthday in a few days?” Her reply “well what would we do?” I listed a few things. Nothing of which would take more than an hour. She said “well I haven’t seen you in a long time so you should spend your birthday with someone else.” I was like what? We argued for a bit. Eventually she said “you expect me to drop everything for your birthday?” Later on she blocks me. Easily the most hurtful thing she’s done lately & that’s including her saying last year that “I only told her my dog died so that she’d speak to me.”

Known her 8 years. She hasn’t worked in 3 years. Now she sits around & argues with people all day over text like it’s her job. But has also been agoraphobic for 3 years. She does absolutely nothing day in & day out. She’s absolutely incapable of understanding what part of her behavior is wrong. Almost 30 years old & she can’t understand her behavior is wrong. They’re literally children.