I can not stress this enough you are only setting yourselves up for failure. I don't think BPD people can't find love. But I certainly know they should not be dating people with autism

I am not currently diagnosed (am diagnosed with bipolar 2 and I have a family history) but my doctors and therapist have started the process of getting me a diagnosis and they are all sure I am infact on the spectrum. All my friends and family think so as well and I exhibit many "symptoms?" Of autism to the extreme.

Either way I digress, don't do it. They will take advantage of you. You will be turned against yourself. They will see your directness as lies all the time. And you're going to end up feeling suicidal once they leave you for someone who is neurotypical if the do. Heck you'll end up feeling suicidal purely because you won't understand the social expectations they will put on you, and they will act like you are choosing not to know.

I've been cheated on my my ex bpd partner and she blamed me everytume. Came crying to me like I'm supposed to help her. I'm naive and I did everytime.

The moment I've been down in the dumps and depressed for a while, she leaves me because I'm not better.

It's he'll dating someone with BPD as an autistic. Don't do it. Mine put me in the hospital, who knows what yours will do.

Not saying ALL BPD people are like this. But we need to take better care of ourselves than most people, the world is infact out to get us. If any other autistic people can help me out, even if your undiagnosed fr please help me