We have been constantly going back n forth and accusing one another of cheating. 2 months ago we “broke up”… even though the only thing that changed was that we were fighting more but still hanging out still acting like a couple doing everything together still accusing one another of “cheating” during this two month period.One night we are on my phone and she saw I liked a provocative photo of another woman, she started to flip out calling me a cheater and about to walk out until I calm her down. 30 minutes later we are on her phone and I see a message pop up with a guys name I’ve never seen before I casually ask her well whose that? She responds “my cousin” I instantly know it’s a lie and call her out and she doubles down on her lie and I tell her to leave.We argue a bit more and I keep asking her for the truth, i called her a cheater and she actually said ”I wasn’t cheating we are broken up”she shut me out. Blocking me on everything leaving me with no answers. Finally she comes around a couple days later and admits that it’s a guy she met on an online video chat site 2 months ago when we “broke up” she then said it’s just a friend not like that come to find out a little bit later he offered to fly her out to see him, said he wants to fuck her, he’s asked for her to show her nipples and she told me her response was “it’s better in person”

Listen I know bdp is mental illness but how insane is someone to accuse me of cheating and doing all this shit while actually doing shit behind my back, I told her forever ago I’d rather be”open” than get back stabbed. Another thing that’s funny is when we first met she told me about her ex who cheated on her and how it killed her and she could never.