I’m really curious if anyone has or is going through something similar when dating someone with bpd she claims to love me and wants a future with me and all that but I just don’t feel that way at all…I’ve been in other long relationships where I just knew the girl really loved me and i can’t really describe it exactly but you just know when someone’s madly in love with you and honestly I’ve never felt like the girl I’m with now (Bpd bae) truly loves me and it’s confusing because I don’t spoil her with material things, I don’t shower her with love(im pretty mean we’re toxic) I don’t have a long John and it’s been two years of hell n back and she’s still here which should be proof enough that she has feelings for me but why the fuck doesn’t it feel that way? She doesn’t shower me in cuddles n love and admiration, most of the time it feels like she’s thinks I’m ugly or is making fun of me or being a bitch for no justifiable reason. I’m just wondering has anyone else dated someone w Bpd were they claimed to be in love but didn’t feel that way at all