So lately me and pwBPD has been living apart, which makes me have space to breathe and think, and actually take time for myself - hence managing to pull away from her a bit. And now she is super nice, like constant admiration and compliments. I'm just terrified this will change back if I actually do commit more of my time to her again, or has our time apart actually made her realise that we make a good team in good times?

I'm guessing this is common as well?

The bad has actually started to fade again in my mind, not emotionally yet, but logically.

Now she is actually treating me like she treats many other people in her life.

She is very aware of her behaviour and I am starting to think she has gotten a handle of herself.