So, my BPD wife (but now ex) went with me to court due to her temporary restraining order. I didn't fight it, at court I told everyone that I already moved out and that I am just here to claim a fair deadline to pickup bulky stuff, and that I oppose the ridiculous things wriitten in her lawyers order.

I didn't even want to argue with her or lawyer, just tell my view if they bring things up... and then, get this fair deadline. Previously, there still have been a lot of mixed signals, which made me contact her, or she contacted me. It alternated who started the contact. But I showed interest to reconcile as we're not just married and I made promised, she is also pregnant and we planned the baby. Splitting me back and forth before the major split, it seemed like communicating would still make sense... but then she went fully psychotic and I became the devil.

So, it was ridiculous when her lawyer told me to stop contacting her as my wife thinks I am stalking her. I just thought WTF..?? Especially, since I gave her a deadline... if we go to court and I am officially moved out (freely, with me not fighting to stay), I gonna reduce contact to the minimum... wich would be talking about the baby that arrives this year or buerocratic stuff but no more. That's literally me saying... if this is over, we will have LOW contact. I told her lawyer this clearly. And I kept my "promise"...

Now to the question... after the court appointment, I went LC, I'd rather say NC... I had zero interest to contact her. But what happened? Out of 7 days, she contacted me 5 of them via whatsapp... with ridiculous reasons, like askinged me for 12 Euro... or giving me her bank details (she knows I have hers as we constantly send each other money when we were together), to send her the remaining rental payment that would be due 10 days later and other ridiculous reasons she started contact... I don't mention all here... but I replied neutral and VERY short, getting out of conversation as fast as possible.

That confused her maybe? It appeared like she felt for the first time what breakup means as I previously always chased her. No more. Day 6 and 7 there was no contact from her side... like as if she was confused....

And then, she posted something on WhatsApp (status) at day 8... a melting smiley, a heart emoji and a "don't tell anyone" smiley with the finger in front of the smiley mouth... translater: I am melting, getting in love, but don't tell!. I didn't react to this... I didn't even click on it but to be honest, I was curious and screenshotted and enlarged it... that's how I knew.

A day later, she upped the ante and posted a status [her name] [name of a dude] with several love emojic and a provokation that hit me heart... below it, OUR song... our couple or love song.

Everyone including my sister question it... the name of the guy is real, we know him from the district but days have lapsed and they are not seen together... in fact, my mother saw him with his GF and his daughter a week earlier.. there are a ton of things that speak against it... but you never know...

But I do indeed wonder... is she bluffing? Did she make up this to get my reaction?

Also, why did she block me 5 hours later when she realized I didn't react? I am blocked since 5 days since then... not the first time we've had 5 days blocking from her side... have been blocked and unblocked a ton of times in the pastt... this time I am not sure. I just don't understand what is going on in her mind?

If this is a bluff, if she wants my attention or if she want to reconcile... making me jelious, hurting me is not the best method to do so... Is she ashamed how much things she destroyed? Does she want me to keep chasing her? Or is it a trick to get me into trouble with her lawyer, with her telling him "See, he is still contacting me" if I fell for it? I am so confused.

What do you guys think?